You may have seen my post yesterday with the invitation during the next six weeks of Lent to ask yourself two questions:
What do I want to move away from? What do I want to move toward?
As mentioned, these two questions were asked of me and a few friends last fall, and the practical action of moving away and moving toward has had noticeable impact. Tina Sellers, who lead us through these two questions on a couples weekend, provides a little more clarity “What thoughts, actions, beliefs, habits inhibit you from giving and receiving love the way you would like?” (move away) Tina went on to say, “What do you want to be more of, grow more into, believe about yourself? (moving toward)
Here are a few examples:
I want to move away from worry. I want to move toward believing that God has me.
I want to move away from screens. I want to move toward face-to-face relationships.
I want to move away from being stoic. I want to move toward allowing myself to feel.
I want to move away from distraction. I want to move toward being present wherever I am.
In asking these two questions of myself it was helpful to take 30 minutes with each question over two days, ask the Lord and write out what came to mind. The season of Lent is a great opportunity to ask these questions of yourself. You might be surprised by the impact this can have in your own life.